Transformational learning
From the time we are small children, we store information in our brains. Everything we learn about love and family, for example, we absorb in early childhood — through observation, through experience, through the emotional texture of daily life. Because much of this encoding happens below the level of conscious awareness, we often have no memory of the events that shaped us, and even less a critical perspective on what was happening around us. This is the unconscious quality of learning from life. We simply adopt the behaviors and beliefs of those closest to us — most often

